As expected, Dead or Alive Paradise is rated “M” for mature. while hopping across cushions, while pole dancing, while posing on the ground, by the pool, on the beach, in front of the camera. There. Brian Newman, the cigarette-thin bandleader, had been mooning over beautiful burlesque princess Angie Pontani for quite some time. This wasn’t grindhouse pole-dancing, it was art: Pontani’s etherea. Her son, Jeff, a 39-year-old construction worker, tried…